To build a strong and lasting interracial relationship, it's important to openly discuss each other's racial differences. With love and intention, interracial couples can flourish, but the journey should start with curiosity, says Nina Sharma, author of The Way You Make Me Feel: Love in Black and Brown. That means having open communication about each other’s cultures, by both sharing experiences and asking questions. Here are some essential conversations to help manage some of the toughest parts of being in an interracial relationship.
💞 Try discussing your differences early in the relationship; if you do not, they could become a conflict later on. Some talking points could include: teaching them your language and asking if your partner has ever felt othered by their skin color.
💞 Talk about how you plan to blend and co-create with your partner in a way to help you both feel understood and respected. This can include playing both Puerto Rican and Indian music at family gatherings.
💞 When cultural or spiritual practices differ, approach negotiations with curiosity. Ask questions to show understanding and work together to find solutions without anyone feeling they must abandon their culture. |