The Weekender: Sexual awakenings, Joan Didion’s Thanksgiving and Black Friday travel deals
Also, here’s why your kitchen looks like that.
The Weekender
November 22, 2025

Welcome back to The Weekender, where you’ll find a new batch of stories about culture and the way we live today.

This week, you may have seen my colleague Annemarie Conte’s face sticking out of a gigantic pile of clothes in the photo that accompanies her article about purchasing a 450-pound mystery pallet filled with returned goods. What she found inside struck a nerve with readers. “I’ve seen people go through the same roller coaster of emotions that I did when I was unpacking our pallet,” she told me. She’d embarked on this journey to discover some truths about shopping today and found a wide world of wastefulness. If you haven’t read it yet, or watched the videos of what she found, that story is below.

Also in this edition, we travel through a century of kitchen design; get our critic’s take on “Wicked: For Good”; and meet one man doing his part to eliminate a bit of that aforementioned waste while rediscovering his soul in the process.

— Farah

P.S. We’ll be taking a break next weekend(er) for the Thanksgiving holiday, but if you have any requests for the types of articles you’d like to get in forthcoming issues, please email me at weekender@nytimes.com.

A woman with long red hair and glasses standing on a ladder in a greenhouse, tending a small tree with yellow fruit. She is wearing a long black dress and a gray-green cardigan. Behind the greenhouse a large tree is full of yellow and orange leaves.

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PAGE TURNER

She has taken 30 years to write a seven-part novel about one day. It’s a sensation.

An illustration of a woman kissing an elf man in a heart frame surrounded by airbrushed butterflies, bubbles, a dragon and an open book.

Ohni Lisle

SEXUAL AWAKENINGS

Sex had become a chore. Then they started reading romantasy.

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FIX A TYPEWRITER, FIX YOUR LIFE

This is the story of how a man traded steady, grinding corporate security for a dying craft and, in the process, found his soul.

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MIGRATORS

We can now track individual monarch butterflies. It’s a revelation.

A woman with a large Afro is seated as a woman behind her holds a crown above her head.

Guinness World Records Day

Q&A

The world’s largest Afro took three people to measure it. Meet the new record-holder.

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110 YEARS IN HOME DESIGN

Here’s why your kitchen looks like that.

A colorful illustration is filled with vacation images: palm trees, beach umbrellas, a cruise ship, hotel and airplane. In the middle of it all is a man in a lavender shirt and aqua pants, pushing a shopping cart with one hand and holding what looks like a rum punch drink with the other.

Jackson Gibbs

NEED A BREAK?

Black Friday travel sales have begun, and the Frugal Traveler has rounded up some of the best deals.

A woman dressed as a green-skinned witch stands beside a woman with blonde hair and in a pink dress.

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ALL SEEING OZ

In “Wicked: For Good,” Cynthia Erivo and Ariana Grande return to Oz. Read our review.

An illustration of a person facing windows that look out onto a cityscape and holding a lit joint of marijuana. Billowing smoke obscures a large sign for a bar.

Pete Gamlen

HIGH N' DRY

How does smoking weed affect drinking? Researchers set up a makeshift campus bar to find out.

An individual wearing glasses holds a mug while buried up to their neck in a large pile of colorful clothing against a black background.

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WHAT'S INSIDE

We bought a 450-pound mystery pallet packed with returned goods from Amazon and beyond. Here’s what was inside.

HOLIDAY PREP

An overhead view of six pies with various toppings, including whipped cream, pink and white swirls, swirled hojicha and yellow squash rings, all sitting against a mottled yellow and white background.

BY THE SLICE

These six pies are easy enough to actually make and beautiful enough to simply admire.

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FRIENDSGIVING

Newly opened archives reveal that Joan Didion was not just a literary maven, but an impeccable hostess for as many as 75 guests.

An illustration of people arguing at a table on Thanksgiving with an orange background.

Darren Shaddick

PICK YOUR SIDES

And now, here are 61 hot takes about Thanksgiving food, drinks, etiquette and more to argue about.

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This edition of The Weekender was edited by Farah Miller, Kellina Moore and Patrick Hays.

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