Couple years back, I was in Mexico City.
Walking through a local market, beautiful chaos everywhere.
Handmade goods. Fresh food. Tourists getting hustled.
I stop at a stall selling leather bags. Gorgeous stuff.
I ask, “How much for this one?”
Vendor looks me dead in the eye and says: “For you… 3,000 pesos.”
He waits. Doesn’t flinch.
I try: “Would you do 2,000?”
“Maybe. But tell me, how many bags like this have you seen today?”
We go back and forth for a minute, but he’s calm. Confident.
Doesn’t defend his price. Doesn’t chase me.
He just lets the silence do the work.
Eventually, I paid 2,300 pesos.
More than I wanted… less than he asked.
He controlled the entire conversation without saying much at all.
And that’s what most sellers forget in negotiation:
If you drop price the moment they flinch?
You lose leverage.
Here’s the move I coach now: