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December 25, 2025

Good evening. Tonight we’re rounding up what Wirecutter journalists gifted themselves this season, including:

Byredo; illustrations by Con McHugh for NYT Wirecutter

Ho ho ho! The case for being your own Santa

By Mari Uyehara

Mari is a writer on the gifts team. Her best self-care gift was a pair of sweats that make leaving the house seem impossible.

For many of us, the holiday magic for our loved ones is powered by our own haywire cortisol spikes behind the scenes. My month has entailed arguing with AI bots about receiving a wrong product, stalking shipment tracking that hasn’t moved in five days, and frantically texting neighbors to grab packages that were left on our steps instead of in our delivery box.

That’s why I also play Santa to myself all December long. This year, I inadvertently went all in on high-end Japanese beauty products, including this round boar-and-nylon bristle brush beloved by hair stylists for its firm hold and shine-inducing effects, and this natural-looking, cult-favorite eyebrow pencil that purportedly lasts for years. Perhaps after trudging to UPS with a sack over my shoulder and wind in my face for the umpteenth time, my subconscious self desires a more kempt future.

I’m certainly not alone among Wirecutter staffers on the self-gifting front. “The question is more like what didn’t I buy,” replied one colleague when I asked. If you’re looking to pat yourself on the back for another holiday season survived or conquered, here are some ways we’re doing just that:

  • Head of newsletters Sofia Sokolove loves the idea of starting a new year with a new scent, and is eyeing Byredo’s Desert Dawn — an extremely lovely cardamom and rose petal forward perfume from the Wirecutter-beloved Swedish scent-maker. (And if you can’t decide: The company makes this six-bottle sampler that allows you to put the $60 price of the set toward a larger bottle.)
  • Writer Kimber Streams splurged on this peppery-fresh, spa-like shower gel with luxurious suds as their act of seasonal self care. Says Kimber: “I tried all of our beauty experts’ body wash picks, and regret to report that even though it’s around $30 per bottle, our upgrade pick really is that good.”
  • In the words of beauty editor Rory Evans: “Comfortable pants are the foundation of self care.” After hearing style editor Ingela Ratledge Amundson tell the world she’d like to be buried in this Spanx sweatsuit, Rory is ordering a pair of these nearly weightless sweatpants that feature a remarkably silky interior and buttery-soft exterior. Ingela, meanwhile, loves that fabric so much that she snatched up this structured-but-cozy tracksuit made from it, too.
  • Newsletters editor Brittney Ho was influenced by a recent panel of Wirecutter testers, who all found Soft Services’ buffing bar to be worth the hype. Beyond noticeably smoothing rough winter skin, the soap-size exfoliation bar comes wrapped in artsy paper and a lovely embossed box that really ups the gift-to-self vibes.
  • For a fresh start to 2026, newsletters coordinator Allyson Waller got herself this fancy planner wrapped in denim fabric with cute embroidered embellishments. It features various coloring pages, habit trackers, and prompts — Allyson is most excited to color the planner’s hand-drawn illustrations while tracking her daily goals.
  • And the more responsible among us, style writer Frances Solá-Santiago came to terms with her smartphone addiction and got herself this app-blocking device for a more mindful and present 2026.

One of the best things about buying for yourself without the pressure of a wrapped-and-ready Christmas morning deadline? It’s a-okay if it arrives late.

My post-holiday self-care prescription is that I refuse to call, email, or chat with even one more customer service robot — and I’m wishing the same for you.

All of our favorite self-care gifts→

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More treats for you

Nuxe Huile Prodigieuse Roll-On

Nuxe

A luxe French oil

Chic and incredibly practical, this French pharmacy oil can shine up dry skin, frazzled cuticles, and frizzy hair in seconds. And it makes you feel like you’re poolside on the French Riviera→

SK-II Brightening Serum Facial Treatment Sheet Masks

SK‑II

Fancy face masks with a well-earned cult status

Mari says these bougie sheet masks have a noticeably radiant, lit-from-within effect on the skin — reducing redness, soothing, and smoothing→

A woman wears the colorful printed Jim Thompson Cockatoo Silk Scarf Kaftan Dress.

Jim Thompson

A gorgeous silk kaftan for glamorous lounging

This simple but luxurious kaftan is made from 100% Thai silk that is blessedly washable. With a beautiful drape and swish, it feels like liquid→

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Amazon

An acupressure mat for relieving tension

Yes, it’s painful at first, but this mat-and-pillow set, which is covered in plastic spikes, can make you feel relaxed, and “even a little sleepy”→


What to give: A partner you just moved in with?

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I am in a later-life partnership, late-60s. We moved in together this year, so we both were coming from full, set households. She is particular about her clothing and jewelry, so I tend not to buy those things (although we will shop together occasionally). She is big on family, sentimental items, travel, experiences, and entertainment, like concerts and musicals. Suggestions? — J.H.

From gifting expert Samantha Schoech:

I love leaning into the experiential and travel side. One of the best gifts I ever received was from my then-boyfriend, now-husband. He created a comprehensive three-day road trip itinerary, detailing every stop and adding funny details about what we would do at each one — from eating pie to making out. But that’s a heavy lift. You could also scratch her travel itch (and lean a little sentimental) with one of these personalized travel maps — the two of you can put pins in all the places you visit together. Or give her this aspirational travel guide to the world. If you’re feeling a little more mushy, you could make her one of these super simple and super sweet little photo books chronicling some aspect of your relationship. Get the music lover in her this sweetly poignant keychain that can be personalized with a QR code for any song or playlist you create. She just scans and, voila, her favorite musical or an artist you love to see together is serenading her.

A signature reading “xox Samantha”

Have someone who’s impossible to shop for? Submit your question here.

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Thanks for being here with us. See you next year.

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