The Weekender: 7 decluttering myths, going gray in style and dreamy country retreats
Plus, why butt muscles need to be taken care of.
The Weekender
March 28, 2026

Welcome back to The Weekender, where you’ll find a batch of the week’s top stories about culture and the way we live today.

It’s time to choose your fighter, spring edition. In one corner, there’s the Organizer, who is ready to use longer, lovelier days as an invitation to open the windows and get rid of all the junk that has accumulated. However, if you, like me, are not great at clearing clutter, consider Dorie Chevlen’s list of myths that keep us from cleaning up. Dorie, a real estate reporter who also writes about home design for Wirecutter, responded to readers in the comments, too. Many were looking for environmentally sound ways to throw out household items and others were grappling with complicated feelings about having so much stuff in the first place.

In the other corner, we’ve got the Spring Breaker. Our Travel desk suggests heading to a country retreat to celebrate the season and has tips to deal with long wait times at the airport. Those stories are below, but whatever you decide, do not think of a bird. A.O. Scott’s latest close read of a poem is about that — not thinking of a bird — so let’s start there. I’ll see you next weekend(er).

Farah

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Isabella Cotier

CLOSE READ

What happens when we die? This poem has thoughts.

Beneath a blue sky, a green valley dotted with houses is surrounded by forest mountains, with more rugged, snow-topped mountains in the background.

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RURAL RETREATS

From upstate New York to a Swedish island, here are five hotels that revel in nature.

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BUTT, ANYWAY

This muscle is the unsung hero of longevity. Here’s how to take care of it.

Two schoolgirls walk hand in hand down a small-town street.

DOWN WITH DEVICES

A phone-free childhood? One Irish village is making it happen.

Sarah Pidgeon and Paul Anthony Kelly as Carolyn Bessette and John F. Kennedy Jr.

CANNONBALL

“‘Love Story’ is actually a horror story,” our critic Wesley Morris says.

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TRAVEL TIPS

Is there anything you can do to shorten your T.S.A. wait time?

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CLAY AND KINSHIP

Their ancestor was an enslaved potter. Now, they are battling to recover his legacy.

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Pascal Le Segretain/Getty Images

IS THIS A THING?

Have you seen the “Gen Z pout”?

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TANGO THERAPY

The dance of passion is helping Parkinson’s patients.

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ASK VANESSA

A reader asks, “Should I stop dyeing my gray hair?” Get our fashion critic’s answer.

SPRING CLEANING

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START HERE

Before you lift a sponge, consult Wirecutter’s ultimate guide to cleaning a bathroom.

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GO PRO

Get a professional organizer’s guide to spring clean your life.

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Mariaelena Caputi

FALSE!

These seven myths are probably keeping you from getting organized.

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This edition of The Weekender was edited by Farah Miller and Stella Raine Chu. Reach our team at weekender@nytimes.com.

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