The Book Review: How do you write about love?
It helps to be a little heartsick — and the best poet of your time.
Books
April 22, 2026

Each day this week, the Book Review will present a new essay, game and series of celebrity readings designed to help you memorize a delightful poem. Today’s letter is by Joumana Khatib, an editor at the Book Review (and your usual newsletter writer).

Dear readers,

I regret that we couldn’t get Wystan Hugh Auden himself to write today’s newsletter, since the latest installment of our Poetry Challenge is all about his life.

What a life it was. Born in England in 1907, Auden was recognized as a star in the firmament of modern English poetry soon after he graduated from Oxford in 1928. His work reflected a wide range of influences: psychoanalysis, mysticism, the radical politics of the day. But after moving to the United States in 1939 he gravitated toward Anglican Christianity, and the subjects of his writing became more religious and existential.

It’s hard not to wonder how Auden’s romantic longing shaded his poetry, too. There was a near-constant kernel of dissatisfaction in his relationship, as his partner refused sexual exclusivity. You can detect the flavor of resignation and grief in Auden’s work, like the terroir of an oyster: When he describes himself, in this poem, as “the more loving one,” you get the feeling it’s more than philosophical.

Of course, it’s also philosophical. But that’s a subject for another day.

THE POETRY CHALLENGE

We hope you’ve enjoyed this newsletter, which is made possible through subscriber support. Subscribe to The New York Times.

Love this email? Forward to a friend.

Want this email? Sign-up here.

Have a suggestion for this email? Then send us a note at books@nytimes.com.

Want to see more of our expert reporting in your Google search results?
Add The New York Times as a preferred source.

A multicolored graphic featuring The New York Times’s logo.

If you received this newsletter from someone else, subscribe here.

Need help? Review our newsletter help page or contact us for assistance.

You received this email because you signed up for Books from The New York Times.

To stop receiving Books, unsubscribe. To opt out of other promotional emails from The Times, including those regarding The Athletic, manage your email settings.

Subscribe to The Times

Connect with us on:

xwhatsapp

Change Your EmailPrivacy PolicyContact UsCalifornia Notices

Zeta LogoAdChoices Logo

The New York Times Company. 620 Eighth Avenue New York, NY 10018