Well: The small changes you’ve made for better health
Plus: dry needling, dementia risks and borderline personality disorder
Well
April 23, 2026
An illustration of a hand arranging several small blocks into the shape of a heart.
Matt Chase

The small changes you’ve made for better health

A few weeks ago, I asked you to tell me about small lifestyle changes that have had a major effect on your health. I received over 800 responses from readers, and I read every single one.

I had to weed out some answers. “I got divorced,” for example, isn’t really a small change, although it did make me laugh. But your responses were inspiring and encouraging — including those from readers in their 70s and beyond who took up yoga or guitar.

Mary Jo Kreitzer, director of the Earl E. Bakken Center for Spirituality & Healing at the University of Minnesota, told me that even small adjustments, which are easier to both begin and maintain, can have a lasting effect on your health over time.

Some of your answers are below, edited for clarity and length.

Every time I hit the 30-second button on my microwave, I stand on one foot, alternating feet throughout the day. It took me a while to be able to do it for the full 30 seconds, but soon after I was able to do all kinds of things more easily than before (e.g., slipping on shoes while standing, getting up from my knees in the garden). — Dawn Bolton, Bowling Green, Ky.

Since retiring from teaching, I have been practicing tai chi twice a week for over 12 years with a local senior center group. It has really helped me keep a routine, make friends and keep moving. — Jean Roestenburg, Salt Lake City

I’m 46 years old and finally taught myself how to play chess. What once felt so foreign and impossible has now become the fun little activity I can choose instead of doomscrolling. Bonus: It’s taught me patience and problem solving. — Katie Robleski, Rio Rancho, N.M.

I live in New York City. Because I had high cholesterol, my doctor once suggested that, for my subway commute, I get off one stop earlier and walk the rest of the way. Simple advice, easy to follow — and I do it to this day! It’s made a difference in my cholesterol and in making movement an easy, natural part of my daily routine. — Michael Quinn, Brooklyn

I’ve always been terrible about drinking enough water. Finally, I figured out a little hack: I fill my very large Stanley water bottle with eight to 10 frozen strawberries, a few ice cubes and water. Within about an hour, it’s delicious, sweet and cold, and I find myself sipping it all day long. — Alice Winkler, Chevy Chase, Md.

I started a couple of small terrariums on my kitchen windowsill. These self-sustaining worlds remind me that there are pockets of peace and nurturing environments amid the swirling chaos of everyday life. — Claudia Dold, Tampa, Fla.

When I think of someone I haven’t been in touch with for a while, I write them a text. Sometimes they never respond. But, for example, I did that yesterday and had a pleasant exchange, and I still feel good about it today. — Jon Goch, Miami

A year and a half ago, I realized I couldn’t do a single standard push-up. I decided that every morning I would get down on the floor of my dorm and do as many push-ups as I could. Now I can do about 15 to 20. The activity takes only a minute, helps wake me up and is a daily reminder that I can do hard things. — Johanna Lane, Chevy Chase, Md.

I started meditating a few years ago. Just 10 minutes a day on most days helps ground and center me. My husband has noticed that I am calmer, nicer and less reactive since I started meditating. — Fern Drillings, New York City

My wife and I now drive the speed limit. We never realized the amount of anger and anxiety that rushing while driving caused — and the result was usually that we saved maybe a minute or two. — Carl Churchill, Cottonwood Heights, Utah

This year, I began to say yes again: yes to helping with extra projects at school, yes to social engagements that aren’t appealing at first or that stretch my comfort zone, yes to helping those in need. I’m busier, but better for it in my heart, with a deeper sense of purpose. — Becca Moussa, Durham, N.C.

Like this email?
Forward it to your friends, and let them know they can sign up here.

Five dominoes are lined up and sit on a white surface. The first few in the row of dominoes have fallen, setting off a chain reaction.
Eric Helgas for The New York Times

Many falls at home can be avoided. Here’s how.

Most trips and slips that require emergency care occur indoors — with almost 80 percent of those happening at home. Fall-proof your living space with these steps.

Read the article: How Do I Prevent Falls at Home?

An illustration of several dry needling needles piercing a target tattooed on a person’s shoulder.
Javier Jaén

‘Dry needling’ has become a standard treatment in physical therapy for pain relief. Is it effective?

Dry needling involves inserting ultrathin needles into trigger points to loosen them. Fans of the procedure say it can offer near-instant relief. Is it a clinical breakthrough for chronic pain or another overhyped wellness trend?

Read the article: Does Dry Needling Really Relieve Pain?

The Week in Well

Here are some stories you don’t want to miss:

Let’s keep the conversation going. Follow Well on Instagram, or write to us at well_newsletter@nytimes.com. And check out last week’s newsletter about conversation starters that aren’t “How’s it going?”

HEALTHY LIVING

Article Image

Illustration by Giacomo Gambineri

How Well Will You Age? Take Our Quiz.

The little daily decisions we make add up — and ultimately shape our longevity.

By Dana G. Smith

Article Image

Roger Kisby for The New York Times

To Reach Their Fitness Goals, They Hired ‘CoachGPT’

Everyday athletes are turning to A.I. chatbots for training advice. How well does it work?

By Chris Cohen

MEDICATION AND DEMENTIA

An illustration of a figure looking at their reflection in an open medicine cabinet. On the upper shelf of the cabinet is a collection of medication bottles, pill blister packs, and a syringe.

Lorena Spurio

6 Common Medications That May Lower Your Dementia Risk

Some vaccines, along with heart medications and other drugs, appear to have a protective benefit.

By Dana G. Smith

An illustration of several healthy and wilting flowers in a human head-shaped vase. At the center of each flower is a pill shape.

Lorena Spurio

4 Drugs That May Increase Your Dementia Risk

Experts have flagged several over-the-counter and prescription medications.

By Dana G. Smith

MENTAL HEALTH

An illustration of three women on a beach holding badminton gear. Two of the women are gesturing toward one another in conversation. Other beach goers are standing in the background. A large beach umbrella is nearby.

Marta Monteiro

Ask the Therapist

My Adult Twins Fight Constantly. How Do I Stay Out of It?

Our Ask the Therapist columnist, Lori Gottlieb, advises a reader who wants to stop playing referee.

By Lori Gottlieb

An illustration of a hot air balloon with an open book in place of the balloon. A figure rides inside in the basket, through a cloudy, sunset sky.

Monica Garwood

5 Books to Lift You Up During Life’s Hardest Times

Experts share the literature that has helped them cope with death, illness and despair.

By Louisa Kamps

Read past editions of the newsletter here.

If you’re enjoying what you’re reading, please consider recommending it to others. They can sign up here. And follow The New York Times on Instagram, Threads, Facebook and TikTok at @nytimes.

Have feedback? We’d love to hear from you. Email us at well_newsletter@nytimes.com.

The Well newsletter logo

If you received this newsletter from someone else, subscribe here.

Need help? Review our newsletter help page or contact us for assistance.

You received this email because you signed up for Well from The New York Times.

To stop receiving Well, unsubscribe. To opt out of other promotional emails from The Times, including those regarding The Athletic, manage your email settings.

Subscribe to The Times