| We asked readers to channel their inner Carolyn Hax and answer this question. Some of the best responses are below. Dear Carolyn: My husband of 20-plus years has an odd habit that’s like nails on a chalkboard for me. I know that changing the habit is impossible (I have asked a couple of times and was waved off), so I hope you can help with my reaction. When in social situations, just at home with family or even at work, he randomly quotes movies from 20 to 30 years ago. There is zero context for this in whatever conversation is happening. I know this is akin to a nervous tic he has, but it brings conversation to an absolute standstill. People initially look at him, confused and unsure of what is happening, and he smiles and laughs. Then they look at me, and I usually mumble that it’s from a movie. Finally, after an embarrassing, awkward silence, we all move on. Am I missing a way to make this less awkward? It happens with surprising frequency, and I’m tired of being the one to try to ease the situation. I’ve tried staying silent and looking confused, but it just seems to make the awkwardness last longer. This happens at least once a week. — Not Funny | 
