Love Letter: Is enthusiasm the cure?
Plus, why you should date your co-workers.
Love Letter
July 10, 2026

Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce may have some single people pining for a new type of love. Not necessarily a love that will lead to a full-on wedding at Madison Square Garden, but a relationship that is the opposite of nonchalant. One that is “chalant,” a made-up word that refers to a state of unabashed excitement and affection. A relationship that mimics the kind of enthusiasm Taylor and Travis have shown for each other at shows, at games and in the little moments in between.

Is this the cure to modern dating woes? Click the link below to learn more. You’ll also find stories about a sky-high wedding proposal and a seriously indecisive partner, and permission to date your co-workers.

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