I watched a man talk to a beautiful woman recently.
 

He wasn’t loud.
 

He wasn’t showing off.
 

He wasn’t trying to entertain everyone around him.
 

He just looked completely comfortable being there.
 

He listened. He teased her once. He disagreed with her about something small.
 

And then he turned his attention away for a moment instead of hovering.
 

Guess what she did?
 

She moved closer.