The Weekender: “Lore drops,” cold dinners and Rachel Cusk
Plus, do expensive dating services really work?
The Weekender
August 22, 2026

Welcome back to The Weekender, where you’ll find a batch of the week’s top stories about culture and the way we live today.

I admit I’m guilty of some cynicism when an old word becomes hugely popular in a new way on the internet, and then in real life. Yes, I know language is constantly evolving, and that is one of its great beauties. But no, I want to say, that’s not a “lore dump” — that’s just your telling me about the pet fish you accidentally flushed down the toilet when you were 7.

In this week’s “On Language” column, though, the writer Mitch Therieau has a slightly more optimistic outlook. He argues that the use of the word “lore” online and beyond is a way to make the everyday a bit more magical: “If ‘lore’ is in part a word about treating fiction as a set of discoverable facts, it is also a word that imagines the hard facts of real life as part of a grand story.” OK, fine, that sounds pretty good.

That’s below, along with some “lore” about Rachel Cusk’s new novel, advice for preventing motion sickness and a roundup of make-ahead dinner recipes that you can serve and eat cold. I’ll see you next weekend(er).

— Kellina

A portrait of Rachel Cusk.

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HIGHBROW GOSSIP

Rachel Cusk’s new book has a character with a strong resemblance to Natalie Portman. The author never expected it would cause a frenzy.

A person in a black shirt with blue and white graphics holds three Spaghetts in his hands. The bottles have gold-colored labels and appear cold.

KT Kanazawich for The New York Times

CHARM CITY SPECIAL

The Spaghett is Baltimore’s gift to the world.

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Illustration by Benedikt Luft

ON LANGUAGE

A one-word trick turns everyday life into grand fantasy.

Two people with wine glasses sit at a table under a hanging canopy of greenery and roses.

Ahmed Gaber for The New York Times

DATING THE DATABASE

As he looks for The One, this bachelor is investing in pricey matchmaking services. Will they help him find love?

A view of a lake with trees on the shoreline and mountains rising in the distance.

Moelyn Photos/Getty Images

TAKE A DIP

Come on in, the water’s fine (at these six wild swimming spots).

Yellow jackets on three slices of watermelon on a white plate.

Getty Images

BUZZ KILL

Are wasps ruining your backyard cookout? Here’s how to stop them.

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Blaise Cepis for The New York Times

BEHIND THE NOM

Colman Domingo got two Emmy nods for two very different characters.

Tablets of a drug on a foil backing are shown beneath a cylinder-shaped container of Dramamine and a model of a blue-and-white airplane.

Eric Helgas for The New York Times

ASK WELL

Is motion sickness preventable?

This is an illustration of a woman reading in a grassy field.

WHAT TO READ

We love these summer reads. Answer four questions to find the one for you.

Three teens are on a wooded road. One girl stands in the open door of an SUV looking ahead, while one boy stands next to the vehicle and another boy sits inside it. All three look at something off camera, concerned.

Neon

WHAT TO WATCH

This spooky feature debut by a filmmaker in his late 20s is another win for Gen Z cinema.

A summery spread of shrimp cocktail, tomato-potato salad and deviled eggs.

Armando Rafael for The New York Times. Food Stylist: Cyd Raftus McDowell.

WHAT TO COOK

Make ahead, serve cold: We’ve got the ultimate dinner menu for a sweltering summer.

A low-angle photo of a young protester holding up a sign reading “NO DATA CENTER IN PITTSBURG.” He appears to be holding a megaphone, and the sun is flaring dramatically over his shoulder.

Aubrey Trinnaman for The New York Times

STUDENT MOVEMENT

These teens are taking on A.I. data centers.

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