David Brooks's latest: The Wrong Definition of Love
The goal of love is to enhance the life of another, not feel good about ourselves.
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August 28, 2025, 5:15 p.m. Eastern time

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Opinion | The Wrong Definition of Love

The goal of love is to enhance the life of another, not feel good about ourselves.

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