This is one of the most powerful lessons I’ve learned:
No matter what happens, you’ll be okay.
This belief is the essence of charisma.
When you believe that you’ll be okay no matter what, it frees you up to be yourself.
I see it all the time.
People who are amazing with their friends - funny, interesting, relaxed - become nervous and flat when they’re in an interview or a new social situation.
Why?
Because they don’t fully believe that they’ll be okay if things don’t go according to plan.
The truth is:
The more comfortable you are with the possibility of rejection or failure, the more people will be drawn to you.
It’s that simple.
Talk soon, Charlie
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