Hey dupa,

Want to know how most people ruin their humor?

They check in constantly as they’re speaking to see if other people are enjoying it.

Think about it…

The best comedians?

They’re comfortable with silence.

They don’t need to check if people are laughing every time they say something funny.

They know that the timing matters more than the immediate response.

So, why does this matter for you?

Because when you’re too focused on getting a laugh, it creates pressure.

And that pressure can kill your ability to be spontaneous and playful.

The most hilarious moments often come after the joke lands, not in the first attempt.

Comedians don’t back off just because the audience doesn’t laugh right away…

They double down, add more to the joke, and keep the energy going.

So the next time you’re in a social setting, don’t obsess over getting an immediate laugh.

Commit to your joke, keep the flow going, and let the humor come naturally.

You don’t need everyone’s approval to be funny.

And when you stop worrying about validation, your humor will become much more relaxed, fun, and... well, magnetic.

Talk soon,
Charlie