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How to Last Longer in Bed?

As a man, I can personally tell you that before I knew about Tantra, the sex I would have was quite short. None of my partners ever complained, so I thought everything was "fine". But it wasn't. Like most couples, we just didn't talk about our sexuality - so I never knew how the other side really felt about it.

 

After my divorce, when I happened to enter the field of Tantra and Conscious Sexuality, I started attending workshops where women would speak more freely about how disappointing it is when sex ends too fast. It's a known fact that women's arousal works differently than men's. Usually, it takes longer for a woman to "warm up" and reach higher levels of arousal. 

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That's why it's so important for men to learn how to monitor and control their own arousal, instead of running too fast and "falling off the cliff" while their partner is still climbing far behind.

Tantra has powerful teachings in this area, and they come down to two keys:

Awareness, and Energy.

 

Tantra teaches both sexes how to develop awareness of their own arousal. How to look inward and listen to your own body. Once you become aware of the signals your body is sending you, you can slow down and use tantric tools to spread the sexual energy through your whole body, instead of letting it burst out from your pelvis too soon.

 

Awareness doesn't stop at your own being either. You can learn to sense your partner's arousal levels too, and there are things you can do to help them become more or less aroused, so the two of you can rise together instead of racing apart.

 

If you want to go deeper into this, we have a new course on YouTantra: "Solving Premature Ejaculation" by Daniel Lebowitz, M.A., LMFT.

 

This isn't only for men dealing with premature ejaculation per se. It's also for early ejaculation, which is the situation for most men. Every man can learn the mindset and techniques that help him last longer, and actually last as long as he wants to.

 

Inside the course, Daniel walks you through a full retraining process across 5 lessons.

By the end, you won't just have tricks to delay the moment. You'll have a felt, trainable sense of your own arousal, tools to slow things down, and the ability to actually stay present with your partner instead of white-knuckling your way through sex.

 

And women, you're welcome here too. Understanding what's happening in a man's body and mind will help you support him in lasting longer. You know it's for your own benefit too :)

 

For the next 48 hours only, we're offering Daniel's course at a special introduction price -  30% off! Don't miss it!

Use this coupon code at checkout:
LASTLONGER26


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P.S. This course is taught by Daniel Lebowitz (M.A., LMFT) - sex therapist and licensed marriage and family therapist who has guided hundreds of people through this exact process. This is professional instruction, not internet guesswork. You & your partner will notice the difference.

 

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Daniel's course has joined our full library of courses, which are also included in our membership program. We're now offering special discounted rates for you to try our membership plans, so you can experience tantric and sexual education from the comfort of your home, at your own pace.

One membership. Every course. Continuous transformation.

Much love,
Ananda from YouTantra

 

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