Let’s Talk About It.
This year’s World Mental Health Day theme is “Lived experiences heard: real voices, real change.” We are encouraged to share real stories to prompt meaningful conversations that will engage individuals and communities, including taking action to get help when it’s needed. Unfortunately, the stigma around mental health remains strong. A study conducted by BetterHelp found that while 85% of Americans feel that mental health support is essential, most still don’t seek out therapy. And when it comes to women specifically, 82% report anxiety symptoms and 83% report depression symptoms, both trending up last year. The findings, which align with what we know about high-functioning women often carrying more anxiety, prompted the company to launch The Permission Project with women’s mental health advocate Sophia Bush to further explore the invisible expectations women carry.
In a conversation about World Mental Health Day and The Permission Project, Sara Brooks, Chief Growth Officer at BetterHelp, said that the numbers in BetterHelp’s studies sit within a much bigger context. “Women have long navigated deeply ingrained, often contradictory expectations about how they’re supposed to show up at work, at home, in relationships and in public life,” she said. There are also unwritten rules for women to be ambitious while still being likeable, to build a career without letting anything at home slip, and to take care of everyone else while not needing too much yourself. These rules, said Sara, should be recognized so that they may be questioned as to whether they’re serving women well or if they should be rewritten.
Coinciding with World Mental Health Day, The Permission Project’s goal is for women to see that they don’t need permission from anyone to “recognize themselves in these rules, realize they’re not the only ones carrying them, and know there’s support available when they want it,” said Sara. “If it creates even a moment where someone thinks, I’ve been living by a rule I never actually chose, that’s meaningful.”
Consider World Mental Health Day an invitation to examine some of the rules you’ve been carrying.